It Takes Character
It’s not about doing it rough and ruthless.
It’s not humiliating or dehumanizing him.
It’s not about turning him into a sissy.
Au contraire!
It’s about trust. Intimacy. Vulnerability. Mutual pleasure. About letting go - and being able to let go because you trust your partner.
The look in his eyes when his minds wanders off. To feel how his body relaxes, and see his mind stop resisting. Seeing him slowly surrender. Feeling his skin react to my touch. The sound of his breathing, his moans and whimpers, his heartbeat.
I top him, but that doesn’t make him less masculine. The fact that a strong man can surrender and enjoy what I do to him is incredibly sexy and arousing. The fact that he isn’t ashamed of his submissive feelings, and how he is eager to please and loves to be played with and fucked in the ass makes him endlessly more irrisistable and masculine.
It takes a confident man to look himself and his partner in the eyes and admit he feels this way.
THAT is what gentle femdom is about.
It takes a strong man to submit to another human, a real woman, someone who has Her flaws and imperfections too. To not just drift off in her arms, but to catch her when she falls too.
It takes character to be this man.
Well worth a repeat !